How Languages Define Culture:
Swedish Fika

How do you define culture? Culture is the accumulation of the values, beliefs, and attitudes of a group of people. It can often cause confusion or discomfort when traveling or living abroad, click here for more about culture shock. One of the tasty rewards of learning a second language is that you acquire words for customs and institutions of your host country.

Building a Network of Friends

Swedes have a daily ritual of meeting together for coffee (or a soft drink for children) and a cookie or a smörgås (open-faced sandwich). Everyone takes this informal break each day: families at home, employees at work, friends at school. Other activities stop as people gather together for fika.

It’s real (not virtual) social networking, invented long before the internet, and a vehicle for parents to listen to children, employees to establish rapport with co-workers, and friends to build ties. Only by living and learning Swedish can you fully appreciate the civilizing benefits of this cultural ritual.

Swedes Value Deep Friendships

Because of the warm friendships that I developed during daily fika breaks, I learned the meaning of lifetime friendships, of what it means to be Swedish and to build deep relationships. There is a healthy benefit to slowing down for a little while each day, something that I'd never appreciated while living in the US.

I'm not sure if my opinions are colored by the fun times and warm relationships built during fika, but it is my unbiased opinion that Swedes make the best tasting cookies and biscuits in the world. You can try a few of my favorites. Coming soon, click here for my favorite Swedish cookie recipes.

Rituals like fika define culture. This warm tradition offers insight into what it means to be Swedish, and it’s the perfect venue for learning both language and culture. Early on I wrote up and memorized a short dialog, practiced it faithfully, and as my language ability and my cultural understanding grew, built on it, expanded it, turned it into a remarkably useful conversational tool. Sometimes, the best way to learn is to take a break. It sure was in Sweden.

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